What do you mean take a walk with Grannie, I’m too busy doing my work.
In today’s world practically everyone is connected to some electronic device. If you are like many grandparents that want to spend time with their grandchildren; it may be a struggle to have them shut down their Ipad, Iphone, tablet, cell phone, or any number of applications to spend time with you. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, children spend and average of seven hours per day on some form of electronic entertainment. http://www.aap.org/en-us/advocacy-and-policy/aap-health-initiatives/Pages/Media-and-Children.aspx
My husband and I have a simple little rule, when the grandchildren come to visit us, in the car all electronics are turned off. Simply put, they can do that any time, this is your time together and you want to spend it just with them. At first, this was a difficult concept to grasp, but after a few minutes, everyone was engaged with each other. We found that if you establish the criteria as to why there is no electronic engagement, things flow so much better.
The children look at the landscape instead of watching a movie and we take turns making up stories from our imagination. Usually we have done our homework and found out interesting facts about the area we are traveling through. We also tell stories and just when we are getting to a very exciting part we turn the story over to someone else to take up where the last one stopped.
We told our grandchildren that they can do those things when they are home alone, but this is our time to spend with them. We want them to know we are interested in them. We begin the trip or visit with activities we have in mind. Asking what they would like to do helps them feel engaged in the activities.
We tell stories about relatives, events, history, or share their heritage with them. They love hearing funny stories, especially if they are innocent stories about their parents. If financial resources are a challenge, check your local area for free activities.
We like to stop at the Historical Markers, we read the marker and learn about the local area. We found a wealth of information recently driving on Utah Highway 89.
Look for these signs for a wonderful adventure into your heritage.
The Mormon Pioneer National Heritage Area is a wonderful place to begin a travel into your own heritage.